i figured it out. i kept most of the wiring in the cab and it can be easily un-installed. maybe this will help someone in the future-
thick black wire- connects to ground
now cut the pink/black stripe wire going to the brake switch. you now have 2 pink/black wires.
thick yellow wire- connect the thick yellow wire to the pink/black wire going to the brake switch.
thick red wire- connects to the other pink/black wire. this is switched 12v.
also short aldl pin f to ground using the paperclip method or by splicing from the back of the aldl connector. pin f is on the top right of the aldl connector.
thin red- connects to green wire to electronic speedo sender.
thin black- connects to purple wire to electronic speedo sender.
thin green- unused
the speedometer sender is located on the transfer case. by the rear drive shaft on the passenger side. its got a 2 pin connector.